The First Snow Day

...on the 13th day of February. Ryan was so excited, asking right away if
we could go to Popcorn Hill (aka Hawthorn Hill). He was actually supposed
to go to preschool today, but how do you tell a 3 year old his brothers get
to go sledding and he can't. I was actually supposed to work also, but I
felt the need to cram a winter's worth of fun into this one fleeting day.
Snow days always make me wish I was a stay at home mom or teacher. In
between emails, I did manage to help complete construction of the 7 ft snow
man. We could barely roll what was to be the middle, so adjustments were
made. I was so proud of how well it turned out and took a hundred pics. As
usual the boys were not amused. After a quick lunch, it was of to popcorn
hill for sledding, though kyle choose to stay here with mom and look through
old baseball cards. I was pretty annoyed, but I probably need to get used
to that, given how fast he is growing up. He is actually going to a girls
bday party on Friday, but that will need an entirely separate post.

First Day of School - 2011

So it is the start of my blogging fiscal year and I think I can officially declare my efforts from the past year a failure since I didn’t even complete my blog posts of Christmas.  So I think I will have to combine 2 years into one book.  It will still be horribly out of order because I will go back and catch up, but maybe I can change at print time.  Anyhow, I want to get this year off to a better start and low and behold I am actually posting on the first day of school, pictures and all.  We can start with Kyle since school is really not so new to him as a third grader.  He got the cool teacher and has several friends in his class, but that wasn’t really enough to get him excited about the new year.  I am still amazed I got him to wear those plaid shorts instead of his preferred athletic gear.  He of course had a terrible time getting to sleep.  He always has a terrible time getting to sleep.  So frustrating and so like his mother.  I think I am going to try to wake him up at school time even through the weekend for awhile to see if that helps.  I don’t think it will, but it is about the only thing I haven’t tried.  We (well me) have been a little stressed about finding him a competitive baseball team to play with next spring.  This is the age where they seem to be dividing up, and while I think everyone could just wait a few more years, since they are splitting I feel like I need to find a team that is going to be as passionate as he is about baseball.  I kept my eye out for tryouts and even emailed people I knew in the baseball community and nothing seemed to work out.  There was a tryout we had planned to attend on his birthday, but we had just got back from vacation, he was running a fever and had a headache and I had put his glove in a bag I left at the lake.  It was obviously not meant to be and we all but gave up, only to get an email a few days later from a coach wanting Kyle to be a part of his team.  It only meant giving up spring soccer which he was more the ready to do. 

 

As you can see from the pictures, Grant was to the moon excited.  I did the crazy put him on the bus then drive like crazy to school, try to find a parking spot and be there to meet him drill and it actually worked this time (when Kyle was in Kindergarten, I didn’t make it in time, but was able to see him safely in his classroom).  He walked straight to his classroom, made the rounds saying hi to his few friends, then found his seat and asked if he could look at the books in the middle of the table.  I really didn’t think it would bother me to leave him, but once I saw him setting at that desk, I almost lost it, I mean, really lost it.  I gave him a quick hug and smiled like a lunatic as I darted out of that room.  He apparently had a great day.  He said his favorite thing was going outside to play.  There is one pic of him riding his bike without training wheels, a skill he mastered just last night.  Again, he was so ready, I barely had to run two steps behind him before letting go to see him successfully ride away.  Kind of crazy when you think about it.    Here’s to a great new school year.

Kyle's Birthday - #9

Kyle's birthday came on the heels of an amazing vacation, but like any vacation we were exhausted when we got home. I had thankfully shopped prior to vacation and planned the party for Sunday, the day after his birthday. He choose Subway for lunch as opposed to the typical McDonald's birthday venue. Since I couldn't decide on a lego set, I got him a gift card for Target to pick out his own. Unsurprisingly, he opted for additional baseball cards in lieu of a lego set. And so the next obssession has begun. Pics of his party will be hopefully in a future post

Grant's List, Santa Breakfast and the Gingerbread House

More pre-Christmas merriement. Mom always takes the kids to Macy’s to put letters to Santa into the special mailbox. As you can see, Grant opted for the graphic letter, drawing pictures of a monkey, helicopter, monster truck, robot and some other things that I wish I could remember. It was hard to remember anything in the midst of planning the Santa breakfast for what will be my last time. It went off well, but it is just time for a new generation to take over. We will see. Since it may be the last year ever, I wanted a picture of all of my kids in the nativity scene. Grant was less then thrilled to oblige, but I still love the picture. Also pictured is Gingerbread House 3.0. I bought a mold this year and I think it was less successful then my hand drawn and cut out version (with the massive chimney) from last year and the gingerbread tasted terrible. We have added candy procurement during our annual trip to Crown Center to the tradition, which is fun because of the selection at the big candy store. Kyle is getting more and more into it and Grant and Ryan still enjoy eating the candy involved. At some point, we trecked to Ashlie’s house for Christmas with the cousins. It will be our turn to host next year and I was excited to score some cool plates at Pottery Barn after the holiday on clearance. More to come soon, my time is running out.

Christmas in May

I’ve given up any semblance to a real time blog and am now just planning to frantically throw together posts from this fiscal year and vow to be better next year.  You may wonder why I bother.  I bother because there are just so many precious (and not so precious) memories floating around in my head and I am desperate to capture them before they fade away.  Each post, no matter how untimely, is like a small victory in what feels like the losing battle of trying to hold on to what I know will not last, this time that the kids are young and still need and want me.  At some point this year, I am thinking early spring, we made the transition from Ryan in the nursery and Kyle and Grant sharing a room, to Ryan and Grant sharing a room and Kyle in a room of his own.  At first, I would still tuck him in and sing his favorite lullaby, Away in the Manager (yes, you read that right, his favorite lullaby for years has been Away in the Manger, not just a Christmas time, all year long).  But as things got hectic, trying to get Ryan to sleep in the big bed, without his binky and the other six million things that go on when the lights are supposed to be out, we just somehow stopped the tuck in/lullaby.  And just like that, he needs me a little less.  So that is why I bother, because at some point, they will not need me at all and I will at least have these thoughts, these memories that I should have cherished more as they happened.  So, I think I left off with Christmas, pics included in this post (there will be a follow up, just not sure when) are of the annual Crown Center Trip, picking out the tree and one of my favorites, Santa coming to preschool reading.  Crown Center went as usual, though had a slightly bumpy start.  Since I live to avoid crowds, we always go early in the month and during the week.  Really wanting to get the jump, I even pulled Kyle out of school 30 minutes early, so we could pick up Grant from preschool at 3, then head straight for Crown Center.  It was all going well until the van wouldn’t start in the driveway of preschool.  We finally got it jumped, but didn’t trust it, so we went home, piled into the CRV and headed that way.  It made us appreciate for sure how much room we have in the van.  It was a fun visit and as you can see, Ryan was thrilled with the choo choo that brought our food at Fritz’s.  There is also a picture of venturing to the Christmas Tree farm.  In the past, we have ventured as far as Lowe’s, but this year, revisited the actual patch to cut down a live tree.  It was nice to enjoy the time outside.  The other two pictures are of one of my favorite Christmas memories.  Santa paid a surprise visit to preschool reading club.  Grant was excited to remind Santa of his request for a stuffed monkey (more on that next post) that he was first to go up.  On his way back, his friend Bren grabbed his hand and asked him to go back up with him.  Our friend and neighbor Ava thought having Grant was a great idea, so she grabbed his hand as well.  Grant was just so sweet about it, wanting to make things easier for his friends who were still a little nervous around the big guy.  Ok, more to follow, hopefully before July.

Basketball

I don’t really have much to say about Kyle’s second season of basketball, I had just posted these pics on facebook, so they were easy to grab.  He of course really loved every minute of it.  His coach told me once he couldn’t believe how calm he could stay while handling the ball under pressure.  He made some incredible passes this year, even at time giving up a shot he could have taken to get the ball to a team mate.  I was very proud of that.  He also mastered the lay up, which I know I was still struggling with in 6^th grade.  Andy and of course my mom were great basketball players, so maybe that talent skips a generation?  It was a hard season for me because practice was twice a week and it was hard to keep the little guys entertained in the gym without bothering anyone.  I did have a carpool, so we ended up only going once a week, but it was the longest hour of the week it seemed.  I am so glad to be back in soccer season where we can play on the playground while Kyle (or Grant) is at practice.

a better birthday for Grant...

I just ordered and received my blog books for the first two years I kept the blog, so of course getting back on track is on my mind.  The first book started when Ryan was born and continued through the next summer.  It was 88 pages, the second was, wait for it, 32.  At the rate I am going, volume 3 will actually be 3 pages.  One of the things I missed this year was Grant’s birthday.  Skimming through last year’s book, I saw the sad post about the waterslide party we attempted to throw in sub-60 degree weather.  Well as you can see, things worked out much better this year and we had a great time.  When I asked who he wanted to invite, he said, “my preschool friends, Sklylar and Chloe and Shannon”.  When I asked if he wanted anyone else, hoping he would name the boys, he said “oh, yeah, Maddie and Ava”.  Quite the ladies man.  Kyle has never in his life had a girl other then Lilly at his party.  We ended up inviting most of his class and a few boys did make it over and it was a great time.  He was such a gracious little host, wanting to make sure his friends had pizza and drinks.  As obvious by the pictures, he picked Sponge Bob for a theme and I had fun making the cupcakes and decorating.  By the third birthday of the year, it is pretty hard to muster up excitement, but I think everything turned out for the best.  I may be in trouble this year, since Jason just celebrated his 40^th birthday and we had a somewhat big party.  We ordered Mexican food from his favorite place in downtown LS and invited several friends from the neighborhood and college as well as our families.  Although we requested no gifts, almost everyone brought him beer of some sort.  I had mom make his favorite “earthquake” cake and we all had a really good time, even if we were done celebrating by 10.